December 8 – What’s Good for the Goose is Good for the Gander

Diverse weights [one for buying and another for selling] and diverse measures—both of them are exceedingly offensive and abhorrent to the Lord. Proverbs 20:10

“Stop changing the rules, already!” How many times have I felt that over the years on this journey?! I know I am not alone.

It seems like when it’s my time, the game changes, the price is higher, or the sale is over. Oh, I know every time has not been intentional, but many of those times felt like there was a self-centered agenda hiding behind the scenes, hoping to remain undetected.

You don’t have to search very far these days to unearth this “double standard” infiltration of the most innocent matters of life. And no, it ain’t right.

But, just the other day, I called out to my boys to get their clothes off the floor, put their shoes away, and fix their bed. I thought the request seemed quite reasonable.

Then I walked into my room…hmmm!

And I heard a chorus of voices ring out in my head, “Stop changing the rules, already!”

Heaven help me.

Switching price tags and padding the expense account are two things God hates. Proverbs 20:10 MSG

October 21 – Everybody Plays the Fool Sometimes

Whoever loves instruction and correction loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is like a brute beast, stupid and indiscriminating. Proverbs 12:1 AMP

Nobody gets it right every single time. On the contrary, we all have much to learn on a daily basis. No matter how old we are, school is constantly in session. We just have to be willing to admit we don’t know everything and be able to receive constructive criticism, and blame, in some cases.

Back when I was managing retail stores, my boss challenged me one day. He gave me three tasks that would have taken a couple of days each to complete, but he required I get them done in the remaining three hours of my shift. It was nuts!

Up until that part of my training, I was doing pretty well. Nothing I faced was outside the scope of a little hard work and a dab of common courtesy. But the assignment afore mentioned was ridiculous, unfair and absolutely impossible…I thought.

Of course I spent more time on what I couldn’t do because of lack of time and expertise than I did on the three tasks themselves.

The next day, my boss questioned my unsatisfactory results and let me squirm a bit before he demonstrated how to “get the job done!” To date, that moment in my life ranks high on my list of “game changers” because I was so sure that it could not be done and I was so very wrong. I played the fool that day.

I didn’t know how to empower people. If I couldn’t do it myself or hire it done, or boss folks around because I was paying them, I was dead in the water. Empowerment requires skill in the art of personal limitations, confidence in self-worth and wisdom of task individuality.

Before that day, watching my boss walk up to busy associates (that’s how he referred to his employees) and invite them to “take a look” at a little opportunity with him that “we had” that needed attention, I considered such action beggarly and weak. But I also had no clue about running a multi-million dollar enterprise that provided employment for close to two hundred “associates.”

Thank God I had sense enough to not play the fool twice and quit that day. And today, maybe someone will read this proverbial story just in time and let what they don’t know override what they think they know . . .and maybe they’ll play the fool just long enough to get the wisdom and grow thereby.